Penny is an artist who uses her creative side and imagination to express herself. She’s now using this opportunity with ASDNext to not only do that through art, but also blogging. For much of her life, she felt like the “quirky sidekick” stereotype in a movie, always doing what others expected of her. When she was diagnosed with autism later in life, that all began to change. This news was life changing and she knew it was time to rewrite her story. She’s no longer on the sidelines of this so-called movie that is her life, she’s the director, leading-lady, or whatever other part she needs to play to figure out who she REALLY is! Every small step toward authenticity is now a victory for her in this new stage of life.
View all postsQuality Over Quantity: The Beginnings of Decluttering My Wardrobe
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One of my continued goals for this year was to declutter the house. All year long, I gathered items I considered unused and unnecessary. While I could quickly decide which spatula or water bottle was my favorite, I’ve always struggled to declutter my wardrobe. Mainly because my clothes make me happy and let me express myself. On top of that, I sew my own woven garments, leaving me with many one-of-a-kind pieces I’ve poured time and effort into. These impractical, emotional attachments have my storage spaces stuffed to the max.
Peering into my closet and two sets of drawers sometimes leads to decision fatigue. My handmade selections include A-line dresses, structured blouses, and printed novelty skirts on hangers. I have overflowed my drawers with delicate, flowy blouses and stretchy knit items deemed too fragile for hangers. The rest of my drawer collection is comprised of budget fast-fashion, well-worn favorites, gifts, thrift impulse buys, and hand-me-downs. As selfish as it sounds, growing up budget-minded, I’ve always focused on quantity over quality. Cheaper options are great for my wallet, but the real cost is more laundry, more folding, and less storage. To make matters worse, I have no idea what gaps I need to fill in my wardrobe; I buy clothes purely for their whimsy-factor. It was time to be brave and start “The Great Wardrobe Purge of 2026!”
The Great Purge required efficiency to avoid any emotional attachments. I tend to overthink expensive items, gifts, and high-maintenance materials. A saying that stuck with me to keep me on track was finding “The Best, The Favorite, and the Necessary.” Top-rated go-to favorites instantly won a pass to stay. An easy group to say goodbye to was the unfitting or damaged. Even if it was a gift, these had to go (either donated or trashed). Lastly, I moved the “just-in-case” items (those with diva care tags, fast fashion, and rare thrifted items) to the front of my wardrobe. Circulating through my “maybes” by wearing them would give me a clearer idea of what worked and what I was missing.
Testing the “maybes” helped me determine which items deserved a place in my new, easy-to-wear, fun, decision-fatigue-free clothing collection. A large group of fast fashion, comprised primarily of polyester, made me itchy just looking at them. Those pieces immediately went to the donation pile. I set aside some more retro-looking work blouses, ready to test-drive. One blouse in particular, a navy button-up with white ditsy-floral print and a large contrasting white ruffled collar, was one I remembered enjoying wearing. The aesthetic was there, but on the hot, summery day I threw it on, I suffocated. Polyester does not breathe as well as natural fibers like cotton. The final verdict? Still cute, but not for this season. Collared blouses are great in colder weather, too, peeking out from under a sweater or cardigan. Navy ditsy-floral stayed, but knowing I could potentially replace it down the line with a higher-quality piece.
The best part of decluttering is that it allows for a few new CAUTIOUS purchases. I had to break the habit of fantasizing about the person I could be in a new outfit and start thinking practically. My impulse shopping habits tend to lead me toward impractical prints, bright colors, and statement pieces. From my decluttering experience, I’ve learned that some of these items are necessary, especially if they’re easy to care for. What I realized was missing were the neutrals to balance everything out. My dream items now include warm, neutral-colored cardigans and blouses made of natural fibers to complement my bolder favorites. I want to shift from impulse shopping to thoughtful purchases that let my favorite pieces shine.
I am still actively working on emotionally detaching myself from clothes. The progress I’ve made has helped me arrive just where I wanted to be. A place of less decision fatigue, more comfortable favorites, and additional storage space for what I’m missing. My handmade pieces now have room to shine, and my drawers close a little easier than when I started. I plan to hold myself accountable and keep decluttering over time, with a continued interest in less stuff and more space for what I actually love.
Penny

