Shy, New Cat

Posted on August 25, 2025

This past May, I adopted a black and white cat. Her name is Willow; she is such a pretty cat. She is shy and easily spooked, whereas my previous cat was bold, friendly, and loved people. Unfortunately, he passed away this past spring. I miss Sheldon a lot. It helps to have Willow here to keep me company. She has recently gotten to the point where I can pet her and even hold her for short periods of time.

The two most important things that I can do are be patient and not rush her to spend time with me. I was at a shelter and looking at cats that need homes. I was so tempted to adopt one of their cats, even though I wasn’t sure if it would be a good idea for either me or Willow at this time. It’s so hard for me to be patient with Willow. I’m more of a “I want things now” type of person and I have a tough time waiting for anything. I wonder if I made the right choice in adopting Willow and if I should have waited for another cat to become available.  I made a commitment to Willow, and I need to follow through though even when it’s not easy.

I find it difficult to stick to my word; it’s easy to forget or not do what I said I would do. I wonder if other people struggle with keeping their word. Don’t get me wrong, she is a good cat but there isn’t the trust or connection yet that I had with Sheldon. I wonder if what I’m going through is common with animals that came from shelters. I would love to know what Willow is feeling and thinking. Does she struggle with her own fears, anxiety and trust issues? I’m hoping with time, love, and plenty of treats, she will feel more comfortable and safer in her new home with me.